The Ultimate Guide to Choosing Your Elopement Dress: Saying "I Do" in Your Style, Your Way

I heard you're ditching the whole "invite everyone you've ever met" thing and opting for a super intimate elopement? Seriously, that's such an amazing choice. Elopements are all about stripping away all the fluff and focusing on what truly matters: you, your incredible partner and the beautiful promise you're making to each other.

Just because the guest list is smaller than your usual takeaway order doesn't mean your dress has to be any less wow. Nope! In fact, it throws open the doors to a whole new universe of sartorial possibilities, just for you.

This ultimate guide is like having your best friend (that's me!) walk you through everything you need to mull over to find the elopement dress that makes your heart sing.

1. Embrace the Glorious Freedom: There Are NO Rules Here!

This is the best part, the absolute cherry on top of the elopement sundae: you get to take that dusty old wedding rulebook and toss it out the nearest window (safely, of course). Forget what tradition dictates, forget what your second cousin twice removed thinks because this is about what makes your soul happy.

Your elopement dress can be anything. A classic, breathtaking white gown that makes you feel like a fairytale princess? Absolutely. A vibrant maxi that screams "adventure"? Go for it! A chic, powerful jumpsuit that says "I'm here to make a statement"? You betcha! Or even a stylish two-piece ensemble that's as unique as your love? Why not! The sky isn't even the limit, my friend.

2. Location, Location, Location: Choose Your Dress Wisely!

This is where things get really fun and practical. Are you whispering vows on a windswept cliff in Iceland with the ocean roaring below? Maybe exchanging rings on a sleek city rooftop with the twinkling lights as your witness? Your location will be a major player in the practicality and overall vibe of your dress:

• Mountain tops: Epic photos but you’re probably battling a rogue gust of wind with a massive skirt. Maybe opt for something a little less voluminous or seriously consider a chic jumpsuit. Flowy fabrics can look stunning in those windswept shots, but just make sure they won't become a tangled mess!
• Beachy getaway: Lightweight fabrics are your bestie here: think breezy chiffon, delicate lace or luxurious silk. Consider a shorter hemline or a dress with a gorgeous slit for easy walking, NO dragging through the sand!
• Forest retreat: Bohemian-inspired dresses with natural fabrics like linen or organic cotton with lace details that blend with the foliage, or subtle flower embellishments can look absolutely magical.
• City rooftops: Sleek, minimalist gowns with clean lines, a power-woman silk dress that means business (the business of love), or a stylish cocktail dress that screams "sophisticated celebration" can perfectly complement an urban setting.

Check out our article on 10 Stunning Locations for a Dreamy Elopement if you’re still deciding on where to go!

 

3. Move It, Shake It: Comfort is Your Secret Weapon.

Unlike a traditional wedding where you might mostly be gliding from the ceremony to the reception, elopements often involve a little more adventure. Think about it: you might be hiking to that breathtaking viewpoint, exploring a charming cobblestone town, or having your first dance under a sky full of stars. Your dress needs to be your partner in crime, not a hindrance!

Ask yourself these 3 questions:

• Can you move in the dress? Heavy, structured fabrics can feel like a workout, especially in warmer climates or if you're wearing it for hours. Lighter fabrics will let you breathe and move with ease.
• Can you actually sit down and throw your arms around your love? Practice doing these things in your potential dress. Trust me on this one!
• Does it wrinkle easily? If your elopement involves travel, think about how easily your dress can be packed without looking like it went through a washing machine on a spin cycle.

4. The Nitty-Gritty (But Still Important!):

Since you’re packing for your trip anyway, let’s take into consideration these things you might overlook. It’s better to overpack then panicking in the middle of the woods don’t you think!

• Undergarments: Choose comfortable and supportive undergarments that work seamlessly with your dress. You really don't want any peek-a-boo moments that weren't intentional.
• Shoes: Seriously, consider your location! Stilettos on a rocky cliff? Ouch. Stylish flats, elegant boots, or even going barefoot on the sand can be just as stunning and way more practical.
• Outerwear: Never forget a chic jacket, a cozy shawl, or even a cool leather coat. They can not only keep you warm but also add some serious style to your photos.

And most importantly, Trust Your Guts!

Ultimately, the most crucial thing is that you absolutely love your elopement dress and feel like the most radiant version of yourself wearing it. Trust those butterflies in your stomach! Bringing one trusted friend or family member whose opinion you genuinely value can be helpful for a second perspective. But remember, the final, heart-fluttering decision is all yours.

Your elopement dress is so much more than just fabric and seams, it's a symbol of your unique love story, the adventure you're embarking on, and the beautiful beginning of your next chapter. Embrace the glorious freedom, really think about your incredible location, prioritize feeling comfortable and most importantly, choose a dress that makes you feel like the absolute star you are. Happy dress hunting, you amazing human!