How to Accessorize Your Wedding Guest Dress

The invitations are in, the date is circled, and you've found THE wedding guest dress. It's hanging in your closet, waiting for its moment to shine. But, let's be real, a dress on its own is like a blank canvas, it's the accessories that transform it into a masterpiece! 

We're not just talking about throwing on a pair of earrings and hoping for the best. No bestie, we're aiming for best-dressed guest vibes, the kind that whispers "Who’s that girl? She’s so fine." without ever shouting "Pick me! Choose me! Love me!”

Alright, let's get you ready to dazzle at that wedding with some fun and fabulous accessorizing tips! Forget blending in, we're going for the top, without stealing the bride's thunder, of course! Think of them as the sprinkles on your wedding-guest-dress cupcakKe, all essential!

1. Jewelry: Sparkle, Shine, and make a Statement

Statement earrings: Got a simple dress? Bam! Statement earrings are your best friend. Think bold hoops, chandelier earring, or simpler pairs but with a pop of color.

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Layered necklaces: If you go low on the ears, go bold on the neck! For a boho or casual wedding, mix and match different lengths and styles for a chill and laid back vibe.

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Delicate bracelet: A dainty bracelet or a bold cuff can add a touch of elegance without being overwhelming. Choose something that complements the style of your dress.

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2. Shoes: Comfort yet Chic (Because you are a dancing queen!)

Make sure they are dance-friendly!: Stilettos might look amazing, but if you can't walk in them, what's the point? Opt for block heels, wedges or even dressy flats. Your feet will thank you by the end of the night.

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Color Pop!: No, not the brand. If your dress is neutral, add a pop of color with your shoes! Personally I would go for vibrant hues or metallic finishes.

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Break. Them. In!: Don't wear brand new shoes to a wedding. Practice walking in them beforehand to avoid blisters and save you from awkward moments.

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3. Handbags: Stylish and Practical

Clutches are your BFF: A small clutch is perfect for carrying your essentials without being bulky. Choose one that complements your dress and shoes, not the one that makes you look like you’re going grocery shopping.

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Consider a crossbody bag: For a more casual wedding, a small and dainty crossbody bag can be both stylish and practical. Choose something that is the opposite color to your wedding guest dress.

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Think about the details: In case you have a more simple silk dress (you can totally check out my favorite wedding guest looks HERE), look for clutches, purses and handbags with interesting textures, embellishments, or unique closures.

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4. Hair Accessories: A Touch of Glam or Whimsy!

Headbands and Hair Clips: A sparkly headband or a few strategically placed hair clips can instantly elevate your hairstyle. Don’t go overboard though, you’re way over primary school age.

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Floral Accents: For a garden or boho wedding, add fresh or faux flowers to your hair. This can elevate your look in an instant!

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Fascinators and Hats: For a formal or daytime wedding, a stylish hat or fascinator can add a touch of sophistication.

 

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5. And a few more to look for: Belts, Scarves, Shawls and Stockings.

Belts for definition: A well-chosen belt can instantly define your waist, creating a more structured silhouette and adding a touch of polish to your look, especially when it’s a more flowy dress.

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Scarves for a pop of texture:  A scarf isn't just for chilly days! Choose a lightweight scarf in a vibrant color or a subtle pattern to add a pop of visual interest to a neutral dress.

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Tights or Stockings (if needed): When the temperature drops, tights or stockings are essential for keeping your legs warm and comfortable. Not just any pair though, but one that compliments your dress and shoes.

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Maybe go with a Shawl: Evening weddings can get chilly, so a light wrap or shawl is a must-have accessory. Think silk shawl, a cashmere wrap, or a lace bolero. Drape it over your shoulders for a classic look, or tie it around your waist for a more modern style.

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Remember:

The Golden Rule of Accessorizing

Keep it balanced! If you're wearing statement jewelry, keep your shoes and handbag simple. If your dress is heavily embellished, keep your accessories minimal. And most importantly, have fun with it! Your accessories should reflect your personal style and make you feel amazing.

No matter what you're wearing, your confidence is the most important accessory. When you feel good about yourself, it shows! So, choose a dress and accessories that make you feel comfortable and confident. Smile, stand tall, and own your look. 

Remember, you're there to celebrate love and have a good time. Let your personality shine through, and don't be afraid to let loose and have fun on the dance floor! Now go out there and slay that wedding!